The child - between imitation and personal identity
The child must always feel that his parent is self-confident because the parent is the pillar of support of the child.
When danger arises, you will notice that a child will hide behind his parents and seek protection.
Also, when a parent is uncertain about it, then the child will tend to imitate his or her parent and look down, hide, be shameful, and humble.
The behavior of his parents guides the child.
If a parent overflows with happiness, smiles at the others, then this condition is contagious, and the child does precisely the same.
You must necessarily supervise the child and learn how to react around strangers. The child must be educated in the direction of protecting himself and not interacting with anyone when his parents do not accompany him!
If a parent is cheerful, then his child will share the same state. If a parent is upset, then this condition will be transmitted to the child as well.
The child can be quiet or agitated and depending on the condition transmitted by his parents.
Also, a child, through his identity, can change the mood of his parent.
Therefore, the child influences his parents and not only the other way around.
A common denominator must be found, and a pattern that usually works best for you and your child should be followed!
Find the "roots" and inspiration in childhood.
